1. It's Not Their Fault — And Deep Down You Already Know It
Your child isn't being lazy, and this isn't something they're doing to you. It even has a name — nocturnal enuresis — and it's normal right up to 13 or 14. Every night the brain has to fire one signal — bladder full, wake up — and your child has to be settled enough to catch it. In anxious and ADHD kids, they can't. It's neurological, not behavioural.